You Can't Make Me

Relationships are understood by only a few, psycologists not being one of them. What people don't realize is that having friends is not about finding the right people, or being the right kind of person whom many are attracted to. It is primarily about not being selfish. Many of the problems with todays marriages is that people don't realize the difficulty in making a long lasting relationship work. They believe that they have just married the wrong person. This is incorrect, because there is no "the right person" for anyone. We must find people who are most like ourselves to associate with, and then work with all our strength to maintain those relationships.